Carpe Diem

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My name is Wansena Spearman and I am a wife and mother of two beautiful daughters. As a Psychology Major, I am constantly challenged to reflect upon my values and cultural identity in relation to those biases and prejudice that I have developed about another race or culture. This is no easy task and requires complete honesty. However,through soul searching and reflection I have come to understand not only self but the soul of another. Subsequently, In using this blog as a platform to gain knowledge about different cultures, my goal is to pose topics that allow each individual to inform the readers about something we may not know about his or her race or culture. The blog is not intended for individuals to criticize or demoralize another individual’s race or cultural values but will focus on gaining insight by uncovering prejudice in order to discover understanding

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Be Inspired

"Deliverance is not found in the action, but sought in the sacrifice"
"Humility is an experience that should be met with grace"
"The path must be embraced before it is understood "
"Hope is renewed each day you wake up"
Quotes by senasmiles

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Boldog u'j e'vet!









When the ball drops, how do you say Happy New Years?

Is this a social phrase that recognizes cultural differences or have social norms negated other forms of expression when bringing in the New Years? Let’s start the New Years of right by exploring others ways of saying Happy New Year.















In reflecting on 2008, what goals did you accomplish? In sharing your accomplishments you may influence someone else to go for their dreams.In 2008, a pivotal moment for me was returning to college after a 15 year hiatus and graduating from Community College of Philadelphia with a 4.00 grade point average. This was no easy task and required a great deal of sacrifice, but the mere joy of walking down the aisle was worth all the hard work. As I continue my educational endeavors, I hope that you will take a risk and make your dreams a reality.
senasmiles

Sunday, December 28, 2008

PhotobucketIt is time to Forgive!

With 4 days left to the New Year, look into the mirror and Face those demons that have pulled you down far too long. When we keep secrets in the dark, they often lead to a bitter heart and a dying spirit. As the year comes to an end, take this opportunity to Face and Forgive yourself or someone else. Seize this opportunity and let your Heart be Free.

I am choosing to forgive myself and my husband. I am letting go of the hurts and pains and pushing forward.

What am I faced with today?
As 2009 approaches, I have been recycling the last 361 days in preparation for brining in the New Year. Although the past year has been a roller coaster ride of academic achievements, unemployment and marriage woes; I am filled with hope and optimism. I am determined to face the past year—for all it offered—joy, love, disappointments and pains by embracing the power of chose; the power to look in the mirror and be Face 2 Face with the past, present and future. The reflection in the mirror tells a story that cannot be avoided. In facing myself, I willingly sacrifice my pride in order to explore the most intimate details of self.
In bringing in the New Year, are you willing to be Face 2 Face with you?